Sex

[Saint]

I can't dole out morality, still I think most people would find it more fulfilling to wait for sex with your spouse. Sex isn't overrated. Waiting until you're old to get married is overrated. Sex is the **** and more.

[ACrum]

if u guys keep up this up you'll have aids in no time.

[Antikhrist]

Originally Posted by Dave

I dont want to get married until I'm like 30, and I sure as hell wasn't planning on waiting that long lol.

Btw Jak, im very dissapointed you didnt boink your exgirlfriend

People still say boink? =/

No, I'm not waiting. I don't plan on marrying any time soon, I just haven't been in a relationship in ages.

[Garnet]

Originally Posted by Saint

I can't dole out morality, still I think most people would find it more fulfilling to wait for sex with your spouse. Sex isn't overrated. Waiting until you're old to get married is overrated. Sex is the **** and more.

That's refreshing to see that somebody out there still has that opinion. I agree, if you can do it, it makes it all the better. It's just pretty damn hard though, lol.

[Jak]

Originally Posted by Dave

Btw Jak, im very dissapointed you didnt boink your exgirlfriend

So am I.

[Ryder]

Originally Posted by Geostigma

18 and still a virgin. In fact, I've never even masturbated before. My physical sex drive is non existent. My mental mind state is off in the deep end, but for some reason I have issues with physical intimacy.

Makes getting a boyfriend pretty difficult.

Come to London baby, Ryder will sort you out

[Ravioli]

What twallop would want to go to south London to get laid?

[Ryder]

....Your mother?

[The Man]

Originally Posted by Cloud, The First Tsurugi

Well, I've had sex before; just wasn't sexual intercourse. Oh and Aaron and others consider it to be incest. I'm sick.

We also don't believe your claims to have been sucked off by your ten-year-old stepsister at the age of twelve at all

Originally Posted by Ryder

Come to London baby, Ryder will sort you out

Why would she bother, when Florida's much closer

Anyway I really find it difficult to comprehend the state of mind of wanting to wait until marriage to have sex, or to get married at the age of twenty for that matter. During the ages of eighteen to twenty-six or so people undergo some of the biggest changes of their lives, and just because two people get along fantastically at the beginning of those ages doesn't mean they'll continue to do so eight years later.

Furthermore, marriage is generally accepted as being a life commitment, at least in theory, despite the 50% divorce rate. Somehow, I think that before you committed to someone for life you'd want to know everything about them, and considering that a healthy sex life is generally considered by psychologists as being one of the most important factors necessary for a successful relationship, that certainly includes their tastes in sexual matters, which one can't realistically know until having sex with them. If after getting married, one partner turns out to have a fetish for bondage and the other is repulsed by it, I don't see any realistic way for the relationship to please both partners unless it becomes an open or polyamourous relationship, which is an idea to which most people don't seem open (although, since statistically so many people end up cheating or getting divorced, it seems like humans aren't made for monogamy in the first place, so maybe more people should be, but that's probably a discussion for another thread).

[YopY]

@Aaron, maybe / probably cheating's just a fad .

[Ugly Casanova]

Aarons going to get some kind of STD with that swinger attitude. =S

[The Man]

Dunno, the Internet and other forms of technology make cheating much easier in any case. But the number of people doing it has been pretty damn high for ages, it's just everyone tried to deny that it ever happened.

And I don't **** indiscriminately, which is one reason why I haven't gotten laid for eighteen months. I'm not going to **** someone who ****s every guy she can get her hands on, unless she's had an STD test right before we shag.

[Ugly Casanova]

I still can't enjoy sex without some kind of emotion in it. It's just bleh any other way.

People I know IRL are calling me sexual frustrated and thinks I should sleep with Greg, since he's the only guy that appears to have any real interest in me as of right now. I know I'm not sexually frustrated. There's a difference between being sexually frustrated and being lonely. I'm lonely and I want a companion. Whether that is Greg or not, I find it unlikely.

[The Man]

To be honest, I can't see myself shagging anyone I didn't feel at least friendship for either. Because for me, sex requires a fair bit of trust, and while I'm pretty unassuming on the Internets, I'm rather guarded in real life.

I do miss the physical contact though. :/ It's been said that having really good sex can help one get over a breakup... but I've never managed to test that assertion out.

[Ugly Casanova]

I don't think so. I think having relations with another man will make me miss my ex even more. Thus, I'm not remotely interested in doing it. Period.

[The Man]

Meh, methinks it would depend on whether the guy were better in bed than your ex or not, and whether you were able to continue doing it on a regular basis.

[Ugly Casanova]

Considering that I want my ex back, I feel like I would ruin my chances if I slept with someone else. Dunno why, I just do.

[The Man]

Ah. That sucks, then. D: Judging from what you've said, though, it doesn't sound likely that he'll take you back, because when guys decide to start being 'tarded about matters of the heart, there's really nothing anyone can say to convince them to stop.

[Ugly Casanova]

Meh. :C

[The Man]

Agreed. Breakups are teh suck. I really wish I wouldn't have angsted about mine for eight months before realising it was over for good, though, because doing so resulted in me brushing off a rather attractive young woman with whom I actually had quite a great deal in common, and at this point I don't think there's anything I can do to fix things. I probably would have felt a lot better if I hadn't brushed her off, too.