I'm a very emo panda today.

Ugly Casanova · 02-01-2007, 11:28 PM

Recently, I’ve been getting some really upsetting messages on my myspace. The messages are about my sex life ( which doesn’t exist ) and my past relationship. All these messages are an attempt to hurt me and they’re doing it.

They went from you’re a whore, to you’re an ugly whore, but now they’re telling me to commit suicide.

My ex and I are really upset by this. Due to the extreme details in the messages. It has to be someone from our circle of friends.

I don’t know how to go about finding this person. Any suggestions?

The Man · 02-01-2007, 11:31 PM

First off, I recommend blocking all messages from non-friends on MySpace until this tides over.

Unfortunately I don't think MySpace has anything like the LJ Abuse Team, but hearing about this makes me feel like checking out more to see what you can do. I suspect they'll have IPs logged and they might be able to track down who it is through that manner, but that's if there's even anyone there to give a **** in the first place.

edit: yeah, under "Contact MySpace" at the bottom of pages, they have a "Report Abuse" option. I'm not entirely sure what you'd want to put as the variety of abuse, though.

Ugly Casanova · 02-01-2007, 11:34 PM

The problem with disabling my non-friends thing is that I use my myspace for my job too. A lot of people I've worked for contact me on myspace. So, I can't do that.

I'm afraid that they will eventually find out that my ex is the first person in my top eight. I don't want them messaging him.

The Man · 02-01-2007, 11:36 PM

Oh, fux.

In case you missed it in my previous post: Under "Contact MySpace" at the bottom of pages, they have a "Report Abuse" option. I'm not entirely sure what you'd want to put as the variety of abuse, though. I guess "Cyberbullying," although they could come up with a less poofterish name for it (like harassment)

Ugly Casanova · 02-01-2007, 11:40 PM

I do that, but they just delete their profile. Which sucks for me, because I've banned them on their old profile and now they make a new one.

I know now that they're calling themselves the characters from Pulp Fiction.

The Man · 02-02-2007, 12:37 AM

Can't you get them to ban the IP address from emailing you or something? Or at least expose who they are so you have something to fight back with.

Ugly Casanova · 02-02-2007, 12:41 AM

How do I get their IP address on myspace?

The Man · 02-02-2007, 12:42 AM

I don't think you can, but I'm sure their support team could.

Ugly Casanova · 02-02-2007, 12:46 AM

That's what I thought.

I can give it a shot, but I doubt they'll care.

The Man · 02-02-2007, 01:06 AM

You'll be more likely to get a response by asking if the IP matches to other MySpace accounts than by asking what the IP address is, tbh.

Anyway, you can always look at the profiles of people who send you messages and see if they seem like they're people who would be likely to message you about business stuff. Getting over a breakup is hard enough as it is and you don't need some jerkoff abusing you with made-up horse**** over the intarwebs and making things worse.

Ugly Casanova · 02-02-2007, 01:12 AM

They're blank profiles. =(

The Man · 02-02-2007, 01:13 AM

So yeah, if someone has a blank profile don't read messages from them?

Dave · 02-02-2007, 01:20 AM

Don't use MySpace, its crappy. Get Facebook

Ugly Casanova · 02-02-2007, 01:22 AM

Facebook?

Dave · 02-02-2007, 01:31 AM

Myspace = horrible coding, ads everywhere, unorganized, ugly as hell
Facebook = genius coding, very few ads, extremely well organized, sexy

Ugly Casanova · 02-02-2007, 01:40 AM

The real question is, when I make love to Facebook would Facebook throw the used condom in my face and leave?

The Man · 02-02-2007, 01:42 AM

I don't know, but I certainly wouldn't. You have a golden opportunity in front of you, I wish you'd use it.

Well actually, I'm hundreds of miles away from you. ****.

Ugly Casanova · 02-02-2007, 01:46 AM

Ha ha!

Jay · 02-02-2007, 02:08 AM

The Man · 02-02-2007, 02:16 AM

I like it. Why is the text black on dark brown though?

02-01-2007, 11:28 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	I'm a very emo panda today. Recently, I’ve been getting some really upsetting messages on my myspace. The messages are about my sex life ( which doesn’t exist ) and my past relationship. All these messages are an attempt to hurt me and they’re doing it. They went from you’re a whore, to you’re an ugly whore, but now they’re telling me to commit suicide. My ex and I are really upset by this. Due to the extreme details in the messages. It has to be someone from our circle of friends. I don’t know how to go about finding this person. Any suggestions? __________________ So it goes.

02-01-2007, 11:34 PM	#3 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	The problem with disabling my non-friends thing is that I use my myspace for my job too. A lot of people I've worked for contact me on myspace. So, I can't do that. I'm afraid that they will eventually find out that my ex is the first person in my top eight. I don't want them messaging him. __________________ So it goes.

02-01-2007, 11:40 PM	#5 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	I do that, but they just delete their profile. Which sucks for me, because I've banned them on their old profile and now they make a new one. I know now that they're calling themselves the characters from Pulp Fiction. __________________ So it goes.

02-02-2007, 12:41 AM	#7 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	How do I get their IP address on myspace? __________________ So it goes.

02-02-2007, 12:46 AM	#9 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	That's what I thought. I can give it a shot, but I doubt they'll care. __________________ So it goes.

02-01-2007, 11:31 PM	#2 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	First off, I recommend blocking all messages from non-friends on MySpace until this tides over. Unfortunately I don't think MySpace has anything like the LJ Abuse Team, but hearing about this makes me feel like checking out more to see what you can do. I suspect they'll have IPs logged and they might be able to track down who it is through that manner, but that's if there's even anyone there to give a **** in the first place. edit: yeah, under "Contact MySpace" at the bottom of pages, they have a "Report Abuse" option. I'm not entirely sure what you'd want to put as the variety of abuse, though.

02-01-2007, 11:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	Oh, fux. In case you missed it in my previous post: Under "Contact MySpace" at the bottom of pages, they have a "Report Abuse" option. I'm not entirely sure what you'd want to put as the variety of abuse, though. I guess "Cyberbullying," although they could come up with a less poofterish name for it (like harassment)

02-02-2007, 12:37 AM	#6 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	Can't you get them to ban the IP address from emailing you or something? Or at least expose who they are so you have something to fight back with.

02-02-2007, 12:42 AM	#8 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	I don't think you can, but I'm sure their support team could.

02-02-2007, 01:06 AM	#10 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	You'll be more likely to get a response by asking if the IP matches to other MySpace accounts than by asking what the IP address is, tbh. Anyway, you can always look at the profiles of people who send you messages and see if they seem like they're people who would be likely to message you about business stuff. Getting over a breakup is hard enough as it is and you don't need some jerkoff abusing you with made-up horse**** over the intarwebs and making things worse.

02-02-2007, 01:12 AM	#11 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	They're blank profiles. =( __________________ So it goes.

02-02-2007, 01:13 AM	#12 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	So yeah, if someone has a blank profile don't read messages from them?

02-02-2007, 01:20 AM	#13 (permalink)
Dave Former FFExtreme Owner Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Ottawa Age: 21 Posts: 706 Rep Power: 6	Don't use MySpace, its crappy. Get Facebook

02-02-2007, 01:22 AM	#14 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	Facebook? __________________ So it goes.

02-02-2007, 01:31 AM	#15 (permalink)
Dave Former FFExtreme Owner Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Ottawa Age: 21 Posts: 706 Rep Power: 6	Myspace = horrible coding, ads everywhere, unorganized, ugly as hell Facebook = genius coding, very few ads, extremely well organized, sexy

02-02-2007, 01:40 AM	#16 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	The real question is, when I make love to Facebook would Facebook throw the used condom in my face and leave? __________________ So it goes.

02-02-2007, 01:42 AM	#17 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	I don't know, but I certainly wouldn't. You have a golden opportunity in front of you, I wish you'd use it. Well actually, I'm hundreds of miles away from you. ****.

02-02-2007, 01:46 AM	#18 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	Ha ha! __________________ So it goes.

02-02-2007, 02:08 AM	#19 (permalink)
Jay The Boy Who Lived Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Maryland, USA Age: 22 Posts: 866 Rep Power: 5

02-02-2007, 02:16 AM	#20 (permalink)
The Man Vi veri vniversvm vivvs vici Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Florida Age: 25 Posts: 3,647 Rep Power: 0	I like it. Why is the text black on dark brown though?

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