Someone help me out here.

Ugly Casanova · 04-22-2007, 03:16 PM

IvIeth IvIonkey: Hi.
NaglfarCommando: hello
IvIeth IvIonkey: Been busy lately?
NaglfarCommando: I guess.
IvIeth IvIonkey: :-(
NaglfarCommando: what?
IvIeth IvIonkey: We've drifted apart! noes
NaglfarCommando: I just dont have much to say.
IvIeth IvIonkey: I know.
NaglfarCommando: and it's been a bad 24 hours. and really not in the mood to read about how your situation is horrible or whatever.
IvIeth IvIonkey: My situation?
NaglfarCommando: Yes.
IvIeth IvIonkey: I didn't even say anything about it.
IvIeth IvIonkey: Nor was I planning to.
NaglfarCommando: I dont know that.
IvIeth IvIonkey: I don't talk about it all the time. O.o
NaglfarCommando: ..
NaglfarCommando: just like you cant let things go.. or listen to others.
IvIeth IvIonkey: What the **** are you talking about?
NaglfarCommando: Dont act like you dont know.
NaglfarCommando: You cant let things go. You dont listen either. you just keep pressing buttons.
NaglfarCommando: I'm actually sick of that.
NaglfarCommando: sure I'm apathetic and an *******. but I never said I wasnt.
IvIeth IvIonkey: What am I suppose to let go?
NaglfarCommando: subjects?
NaglfarCommando: certain things you just keep on and it pisses me the **** off.
NaglfarCommando: Supposedly we're supposed to be a perfect match for each other.
IvIeth IvIonkey: What subjects!? I didn't say anything other than asked if you were busy.
NaglfarCommando: Who said it happened today?
NaglfarCommando: I am talking in general.
NaglfarCommando: but you obviously missed that.
IvIeth IvIonkey: Seems like you're the one with the letting go problem. You're bring up things that have already happened and bitching about them.
IvIeth IvIonkey: Not me.
NaglfarCommando: Okay. gonna solve that right now.
NaglfarCommando: Bye

Someone tell me what happened here...please?

Larsa · 04-22-2007, 03:21 PM

What the ****......................................I lost you at "I don't want to hear your problems." I think you both were talking about how **** the person feels and how it's rubbing off.

Faded Hero · 04-22-2007, 03:27 PM

S/He's had a bad day and is just taking it out in the first person who talks to him. That or you might have told him all your problems over a period of time and it just seems to him that maybe perhaps that is all you talk about. I'm gonna go with a mix of both probably though.

Ugly Casanova · 04-22-2007, 03:37 PM

This guy has had his eye on me for two years, so he says. I'll be honest, I knew he was there, but then again I didn't. He really didn't have any affect on my life at the time until my ex dumped me. I ran to him for some kind of support. After a month or so, we started to like each other. He has stated many times in the past that he never wanted me to walk on egg shells and wanted me to feel comfortable around him. I thought ''Wow, this could be a great friend''.

He starts telling me his woe stories about his ex wife, ex girlfriend, and finicial troubles. I listened, because I cared. He sat there when I talked about my ex boyfriend and understood. After some time, I start telling him about my money trouble. I told him that I had a choice. I can move in with Dieter and stay in Georgia, or move to Sarasota, Florida with my family in May. He didn't like either choice, because Dieter was my ex and my ex boyfriend Alex lives in Sarasota. Ever since then, he's been livid with me. Everything I do or say just makes him angry.

He knows nothing can happen, because we have 2,000 miles between us. I have no money, so I can't move there or visit. I was just hoping he and I could be closet friends...but I guess that wont be happening.

I'm so disappointed.

Faded Hero · 04-22-2007, 03:43 PM

Well perhaps he's upset because if Dieter was your ex, you probably broke up for a good reason, and moving in with and "ex" in any guys mind who isn't the "ex" (and even so, he might be thinking this too), tell us, "Hey she is really jonesin' (missing) her ex, she'll probably do anything to get him back, looks like a lot of sex for Dieter!"

Even if that isn't even a remote possibility, its still on our minds, especially if we like you and we helped you thru all the **** that he put you through. So his anger could be a bit on the jealous side which will make him sorta irrational. Give him a bit of time, its quite possible he'll come back around.

Larsa · 04-22-2007, 03:46 PM

How bout you give his AIM or MSN or whatever it was adress to someone here and ask him POLITLY if he can stop and say what he wants. There has to be more to the story than that.

Ugly Casanova · 04-22-2007, 03:55 PM

We're talking it out now.

It's been a bad year for us both. Hopefully we can go back to the way we were.

04-22-2007, 03:16 PM	#1 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	Someone help me out here. IvIeth IvIonkey: Hi. NaglfarCommando: hello IvIeth IvIonkey: Been busy lately? NaglfarCommando: I guess. IvIeth IvIonkey: :-( NaglfarCommando: what? IvIeth IvIonkey: We've drifted apart! noes NaglfarCommando: I just dont have much to say. IvIeth IvIonkey: I know. NaglfarCommando: and it's been a bad 24 hours. and really not in the mood to read about how your situation is horrible or whatever. IvIeth IvIonkey: My situation? NaglfarCommando: Yes. IvIeth IvIonkey: I didn't even say anything about it. IvIeth IvIonkey: Nor was I planning to. NaglfarCommando: I dont know that. IvIeth IvIonkey: I don't talk about it all the time. O.o NaglfarCommando: .. NaglfarCommando: just like you cant let things go.. or listen to others. IvIeth IvIonkey: What the ** are you talking about? NaglfarCommando: Dont act like you dont know. NaglfarCommando: You cant let things go. You dont listen either. you just keep pressing buttons. NaglfarCommando: I'm actually sick of that. NaglfarCommando: sure I'm apathetic and an ***. but I never said I wasnt. IvIeth IvIonkey: What am I suppose to let go? NaglfarCommando: subjects? NaglfarCommando: certain things you just keep on and it pisses me the off. NaglfarCommando: Supposedly we're supposed to be a perfect match for each other. IvIeth IvIonkey: What subjects!? I didn't say anything other than asked if you were busy. NaglfarCommando: Who said it happened today? NaglfarCommando: I am talking in general. NaglfarCommando: but you obviously missed that. IvIeth IvIonkey: Seems like you're the one with the letting go problem. You're bring up things that have already happened and bitching about them. IvIeth IvIonkey: Not me. NaglfarCommando: Okay. gonna solve that right now. NaglfarCommando:** Bye Someone tell me what happened here...please? __________________ So it goes.

04-22-2007, 03:21 PM	#2 (permalink)
Larsa Ferrinas Solidor Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Kansas City Age: 14 Posts: 2,327 Rep Power: 8	What the **......................................I lost you at "I don't want to hear your problems." I think you both were talking about how ** the person feels and how it's rubbing off. __________________ http://forums.ffextreme.com/attachme...1&d=1175550360

04-22-2007, 03:27 PM	#3 (permalink)
Faded Hero I can curse here and you can't Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Ipsen's Castle Age: 24 Posts: 449 Rep Power: 4	S/He's had a bad day and is just taking it out in the first person who talks to him. That or you might have told him all your problems over a period of time and it just seems to him that maybe perhaps that is all you talk about. I'm gonna go with a mix of both probably though. __________________ .:Nothing is true... Everything is permitted:.

04-22-2007, 03:37 PM	#4 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	This guy has had his eye on me for two years, so he says. I'll be honest, I knew he was there, but then again I didn't. He really didn't have any affect on my life at the time until my ex dumped me. I ran to him for some kind of support. After a month or so, we started to like each other. He has stated many times in the past that he never wanted me to walk on egg shells and wanted me to feel comfortable around him. I thought ''Wow, this could be a great friend''. He starts telling me his woe stories about his ex wife, ex girlfriend, and finicial troubles. I listened, because I cared. He sat there when I talked about my ex boyfriend and understood. After some time, I start telling him about my money trouble. I told him that I had a choice. I can move in with Dieter and stay in Georgia, or move to Sarasota, Florida with my family in May. He didn't like either choice, because Dieter was my ex and my ex boyfriend Alex lives in Sarasota. Ever since then, he's been livid with me. Everything I do or say just makes him angry. He knows nothing can happen, because we have 2,000 miles between us. I have no money, so I can't move there or visit. I was just hoping he and I could be closet friends...but I guess that wont be happening. I'm so disappointed. __________________ So it goes.

04-22-2007, 03:43 PM	#5 (permalink)
Faded Hero I can curse here and you can't Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Ipsen's Castle Age: 24 Posts: 449 Rep Power: 4	Well perhaps he's upset because if Dieter was your ex, you probably broke up for a good reason, and moving in with and "ex" in any guys mind who isn't the "ex" (and even so, he might be thinking this too), tell us, "Hey she is really jonesin' (missing) her ex, she'll probably do anything to get him back, looks like a lot of sex for Dieter!" Even if that isn't even a remote possibility, its still on our minds, especially if we like you and we helped you thru all the **** that he put you through. So his anger could be a bit on the jealous side which will make him sorta irrational. Give him a bit of time, its quite possible he'll come back around. __________________ .:Nothing is true... Everything is permitted:.

04-22-2007, 03:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
Larsa Ferrinas Solidor Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Kansas City Age: 14 Posts: 2,327 Rep Power: 8	How bout you give his AIM or MSN or whatever it was adress to someone here and ask him POLITLY if he can stop and say what he wants. There has to be more to the story than that. __________________ http://forums.ffextreme.com/attachme...1&d=1175550360

04-22-2007, 03:55 PM	#7 (permalink)
Ugly Casanova The Freudian Slip Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: I live in a ****ing trashcan! Age: 21 Posts: 2,055 Rep Power: 8	We're talking it out now. It's been a bad year for us both. Hopefully we can go back to the way we were. __________________ So it goes.

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